Jodoh & Pertemuan

Lately, topic ini kerap menjadi topic fav di kalangan kengkawan ku. Tidak kira di dalam lingkungan umurku atau yang jauh lebih muda dari ku…

Yea, age just a number.

A long, long, time ago…that was my favorite answered if there is someone ever asks…when I want to settle down???

But, now I just not even think about it…

Anyway one day, one of my old cliques at Dungun blurts out her feeling regarding married thing. I can sense that she worried about her “Jodoh”…then she happened to use statement as I ever did “age just a number”
(Actually, everyone used…He2…)

Then I blurted back at her, yea age just a number…but, soon or later we need someone to be at our side…
(Huhu, can’t you see guyz? Years past by and your thinking will change and you’ll enjoy the flow…n G! Surprise!2...)

…to cherish every good and bad moment…to enjoy coffee and tea together in the backyard while watching your grandchild live life to the fullest…(what a great, great, dream!...)

Dear friends, Insya-Allah we will meet our “Jodoh” if it mean to be in the first place. So, before the big day will come, enjoy the freedom you have…stop worried too much…

Aku?

Aku seorang yang takut dengan commitment…dengan diri sendiri pun x tercommit, nie kan pulak dengan orang lain?...Freedom is everything!

Tapi, mungkin jugak aku takut melihat kepincangan yang telah banyak aku lihat. He2, jangan salah tafsir yea? So far, Alahamdulillah, keluarga ku bahagia seadanya…Sesungguhnya aku bersyukur padamu ya Allah…Maksudku masyarakat sekeliling, bahkan yang terdekat dengan ku…
So, tidak hairanlah…Aku takut untuk

Mengenal erti cinta….

Menjadi seseorang yang bercinta bagai nak rak tapi berkahwin dengan orang lain…Buang masa kan?...

Kehilangan kawan, better jadi matchmaker…lebih selamat… Although, ever occured to my mind, Why not just give him a chance? Instead match him with others in order to safe yourself? (GERUN2, bila ku baca balik! Adus!2..)

“Tak tercommit aku”, disokong kuat lagi dengan keaadaan lingkungan social di mana aku berada sekarang…jauh lebih muda…

So, camana? Alasan yang kukuh kan?

So, tak payah la nk pening2kn kepala…tumpu pada apa yang patut dolu…(Ingatan untuk diri sendiri, since lately banyak orang di sekelilingku worried about cintan-cintun, jodoh dan pertemuan…)

So, Nik your time will come soon…don’t worry…just be yourself…you have your own attractions and uniqueness…Same goes to you Masni (Gadis Timur)…

Hmm, bab jodoh & pertemuan, kalo dicakap xakan abis dalam sehari, seminggu, sebulan, setahun pun tidaaaakkkk…jadi cukup saja di sini…

P/S: Yani, when the time come you will know by yourself he is the one, the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, for worse and good whether what his fault…you will know deep inside…so, smile and open the door…don’t be like me…you’re still young…so, be good, don’t noty2…big thanks for your friendship…take care yea?...Wakaka…

P/S2: You too Kynah...But, please don't fall in love with a 'wrong' guy...Enjoy your career!...You have strength!...n please be good and don't noty2...take care my old friend...

P/S3: Already sick, sick, sick and sick...talked about 'THIS'...